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How can the beatitudes help us resolve anger?
Eight Attitudes for Anger Resolution learning to live out the beatitudes In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus discussed the meaning of key points in God’s Law. He began with the topic of anger: Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shall not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall ...What will strengthen my relationship with my siblings?
Advice on Sibling Relationships tips on sibling harmony Although family relationships are some of the most valuable ties we have, most children and youth struggle to get along with their brothers and sisters. Irritations, competition, quarrelling, and other typical challenges can quickly turn a ...How can I learn to get along with my siblings?
How to Develop Sibling Harmony relational tips for brothers and sisters Can brothers and sisters learn to get along? Can they become best friends? The answer to these questions is, yes! Despite the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships, many families are finding that sibling harmony i ...What are the commands of Christ?
49 Commands of Christ words to live by Jesus said, “If ye love me, keep my commandments” (John 14:15). Keeping the commands of Jesus begins with recognizing what they are. Following is a collection of 49 of Jesus’ commands. As you read through them, ask God to help you observe these words, appl ...What does God promise to those who keep Christ’s commands?
Rewards for Keeping the Commands of Christ treasures to reap when living by the words of Jesus When we keep—that is, observe, remember, and apply—the commands of Jesus Christ, Scripture explains that many rewards will follow. God will love us and reveal Himself to us. “He that hath my commandm ...If I'm focused on my husband's perceived failures, how can I walk in obedience to God?
Lists, Lessons, and Lasting Love a wife shares her journey of rebuilding a marriage Do you have a list? Not one of those “honey-do” lists of what we would like to have done around the house, like fixing the dripping faucet or cleaning the garage. I’m talking about a list of your husband’s failu ...How can I overcome barriers between myself and my child?
Overcoming Barriers Between You and Your Children nurturing healthy relationships Good family relationships are a rare treasure. It takes time and effort, love and forgiveness, and wisdom and patience to build healthy bonds with your children. Often difficulties, hurts, or disappointments can w ...What's in a good name?
What’s in a Good Name? key factors behind a good name Your name represents you, your life, and who you are. It speaks of the work you do and how you do it. Your name embodies your reputation. Having a good name requires honorable motives and priorities. It also involves living with a clear cons ...Have spoken blessings changed lives?
Spoken Blessings Change Lives how children and adults have benefited from spoken blessings As mothers, fathers, and children have learned to bless one another in the Lord’s name, the power of spoken blessings has become evident in their families. Below are several testimonies from family member ...What character qualities counter anger?
Keys to Anger Resolution character qualities that make a difference Patience Patience helps us learn to see irritations and trials from God’s point of view. It accepts a difficult situation without demanding that it be resolved according to a certain timetable. According to Romans 5:3–5, the si ...How should I deal with irritations?
Responding to Irritations take a seat in the classroom of life Irritations spring from many sources: the people around you, the environment you live in, and the details of your personal life. The things that aggravate you usually influence your attitudes and actions. If you respond to irritatio ...How can I conquer anger?
Insights About Conquering Anger seeing anger for what it is and doing something about it Anger destroys relationships and generates violence in the home, on the street, and in the community. Scripture warns, “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to ...Why do I need a clear conscience?
The Purpose of a Clear Conscience living in harmony with God and men A healthy conscience discerns between good and evil, and it gets weighed down with guilt over wrongdoing. This sense of guilt should motivate you to take responsibility for your actions and seek forgiveness when you have done ...When asking for forgiveness, are there cautions I should consider?
When Asking for Forgiveness tips to keep in mind Confess only to those who were directly, or actually, offended. Accountability and prayer support between husbands and wives, parents and children, and members of the Body of Christ are important elements of healthy relationships, but additional ...What are some signs of genuine repentance?
Insights Into Repentance lessons from the prodigal son Repentance is not a mechanical duty, but rather a heartfelt response to the conviction of sin. It involves not only grief over sin, but it also includes a decision to change one’s ways. When John the Baptist preached, he challenged his list ...What basic steps should be taken in order to gain a clear conscience?
How to Gain a Clear Conscience take responsibility for your actions When you have offended others, gaining a clear conscience involves taking responsibility for your actions, seeking forgiveness, and making restitution. The following steps provide guidelines for examining your heart and making ...What can stand in the way of clearing my conscience?
Hindrances to Gaining a Clear Conscience common points of rationalization When you’ve said or done something that weighs on your conscience, you might try to explain away the guilt. The following issues could keep you from clearing your conscience: Knowing that the ones you offended were wrong ...When clearing my conscience, what attitudes should I have?
Attitudes for Gaining a Clear Conscience putting the beatitudes to work in your life When you ask a person to forgive you, he will recognize how far you’ve come in developing the following attitudes. Jesus spoke of these attitudes in the Sermon on the Mount (see Matthew 5:3–12), stating that th ...How can I use Scripture to help tame my tongue?
Twelve “Tongue Tamers” Scriptures about controlling your words The following Bible verses are a few of many that address the power of words and your responsibility for what you speak. Memorizing and meditating on these Scriptures and others can help you remember to speak with wisdom and discret ...Why does God let bad things happen?
Why Does God Let Bad Things Happen? how to avoid the trap of bitterness Have you ever wondered, Why did God let me suffer that injury? lose my job? have a car accident? forget that appointment? have a fight with my spouse? let my parents get divorced? let me be born with a defect? How can a God ...