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How should I respond if my unchangeable features prompt ridicule?
Responding to Ridicule what to do if you are mocked for unchangeable features We’ve all felt the sting of ridicule. Observant children do not hesitate to bring embarrassing features into the spotlight. Bullies use words as weapons of intimidation. Spiteful teasing from friends and family member ...Why do I need to accept myself?
Foundations of Accepting God’s Design keys to self-acceptance Your attitude about yourself has a profound influence on your attitudes toward God, your family, your friends, and your future. Understanding the concepts of self-acceptance brings freedom from comparison with others and allows you t ...How can I live with a physical defect?
Living Victoriously With Physical Defects building trust in your Designer Birthmarks, disabilities, deformities, and other needs cause us to ask searching questions. Why would a loving, all-powerful Creator God allow imperfections to exist? Remember that the world is marred by man’s rebellion a ...How can parents help children submit to authority?
Keys to Avoiding Rebellion tips for parents When teens are asked about changes they would like to see in their parents’ lives, their wishes often fall into three basic categories. They wish their parents (especially their fathers) would (1) admit when they are wrong, (2) control their tempers, ...If I’m a widow or divorced, who is my authority figure?
Since you are no longer accountable to a husband, God fulfills the role of Husband in your circumstances. However, be quick to seek wisdom through Godly counselors, such as parents, parents-in-law, pastors, or mature believers. God takes special care of widows. He is their protector: “A father ...Does it matter how I respond to an offender?
Responding to Offenders you can make a difference through forgiveness When someone offends you, your response can lead to the bondage of bitterness or the freedom of forgiveness. You might be surprised by the far-reaching results of your attitudes and actions! A Proud Response Leads to Bitterne ...What consequences occur when I don’t forgive an offender?
Consequences of Bitterness how a lack of forgiveness affects body, soul, and spirit Harboring bitterness in your heart brings consequences that affect you physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Physical Consequences Chemical imbalance Resentment causes imbalance in the hormones fr ...When should a child be released from his parents' authority?
A father and mother’s jurisdiction ends when they transfer authority in marriage or when they release an adult son or daughter for training, work, or ministry. Before this transfer takes place, a measure of independence should be earned as the young person learns to discern and obey the guidanc ...What is an "umbrella of protection"?
Understanding “Umbrellas of Protection” embracing the Biblical principle of authority An umbrella is designed to provide protection from various elements of nature: rain, hail, snow, wind, or sunshine. As long as a person is under an umbrella, he finds shelter from harsh weather conditions. If ...Do I need to honor and obey my authority if he is unsaved?
Christian children, wives, citizens, and employees are not excused from obedience because their authority figures are not believers. We should do that which our authorities require of us as long as it is within the boundary of God’s Word. If we are asked to do something wrong, we should make an ...What should I do if my authorities ask me to do wrong?
If an authority asks you to do something that is wrong, explain your concerns and make an appeal. Hopefully the one in leadership will wisely respond to your cautions, adjust his direction, and be able to move ahead with your restored support. Authorities who continue to do wrong are stepping b ...If my parents are divorced, who is my authority figure?
The parent who is legally responsible for you becomes your direct authority. The separated parent may be a part of your chain of counsel. If the parent with whom you are living remarries, he or she automatically delegates part of his or her authority to your step-parent. Learn more about the Bi ...If my parents don’t care what I do, how can I honor their authority?
There are reasons why a parent has ceased caring about what his child does. In most cases, the child has had a strong will and rebelled against his parents. At some point, the parents just decided to stop arguing with him and gave up. When a young person dedicates his life to the Lord, clears h ...If I’m single and living on my own, do I still need to honor my parents?
First, be sure that God has led you to move away from your parents. When God designed the family structure, He purposed that each one in the family meet basic needs for others—especially social needs. When a single person leaves his family, he should be aware that most likely he will face tempt ...If I married the wrong person, do I still need to honor his authority?
Your marriage may not have been one that God would have arranged. However, He established the authority structure of the marriage relationship, and He is eager and able to bless your marriage and to use it to work in your life. “With God, nothing shall be impossible” (Luke 1:37). Learn more abo ...If I don’t respect the authority over me, do I still need to honor him?
It is important to distinguish between an authority’s position under God and his human personality. We are to reverence his position, even though at the same time we may be very aware of his personal weaknesses and failures. To reject an authority because you don’t respect him could be likened ...What are God-ordained authority structures?
Structures of Authority order in the home, church, workplace, and government Recognizing and obeying the one in charge brings security and order to a group. Each person looks to the leader for direction and accountability, and he or she provides guidance for working through questions or problem ...What rewards are promised to those who submit to authority?
The Blessings of Obedience rewards for those who submit to authority God promises rewards to those who submit to authority. The following Bible verses reveal that this concept affects many aspects of life. Things will be well with you. “Honor thy father and mother; which is the first commandme ...How can I overcome negative thought patterns?
Take Your Thoughts Captive learning to think thoughts of truth As followers of God, our spiritual journey involves learning to bring our thoughts under the control of God in obedience to Jesus Christ. “(For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of ...Is rejecting myself the same as rejecting God?
We Are God’s Workmanship learning to cherish God’s design Just as artists express their innermost values and thoughts through art, God expresses Himself through His creation, which includes you! Scripture states that believers are God’s workmanship. (See Ephesians 2:10.) Each unchangeable part ...