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How can I avoid the dangers of moral impurity?
Recognize the Traps of Moral Impurity beware of hidden dangers The trap of moral impurity often springs with sudden, unexpected force. The one caught in bondage is left to unravel a maze of choices that brought him or her into the net. As you learn to recognize the warning signs of danger and t ...What is moral freedom?
Understanding Moral Freedom the power to do what is right Moral freedom is not the right to do what you want—it is the strength to do what is right. Moral freedom is not the absence of restraint, but rather it is a resolve to honor God’s design of purity and holiness. Moral freedom is liberty t ...What character qualities counter anger?
Keys to Anger Resolution character qualities that make a difference Patience Patience helps us learn to see irritations and trials from God’s point of view. It accepts a difficult situation without demanding that it be resolved according to a certain timetable. According to Romans 5:3–5, the si ...How is courtship different than dating?
What Is Courtship? understand how courtship differs from dating Courtship is a relationship between a man and a woman in which they seek to determine if it is God’s will for them to marry each other. Under the protection, guidance, and blessing of parents or mentors, the couple concentrates on ...How should I deal with irritations?
Responding to Irritations take a seat in the classroom of life Irritations spring from many sources: the people around you, the environment you live in, and the details of your personal life. The things that aggravate you usually influence your attitudes and actions. If you respond to irritatio ...How can I conquer anger?
Insights About Conquering Anger seeing anger for what it is and doing something about it Anger destroys relationships and generates violence in the home, on the street, and in the community. Scripture warns, “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to ...How do irritations help fulfill God’s purposes for my life?
Trading Irritations for Maturity embracing God’s transforming work in your life Irritations often expose areas in which you need to mature. God wants every Christian to reflect the integrity of His Son Jesus Christ, and God can work through the people and circumstances of your life to press you ...How do responsibilities relate to personal rights and expectations?
Responsibilities, Rights, and Expectations understanding the difference Conflicts are usually the result of fumbled responsibilities, trampled rights, and unfulfilled expectations. If you can learn to acknowledge and identify these factors, you’ll gain insights into resolving the anger and worr ...Did Jesus Christ yield personal rights?
Christ’s Example of Yielding Rights learning from Jesus’ surrender to God Through His life, death, and resurrection, Jesus Christ gives us a striking example of complete obedience and surrender to God. In the Book of Philippians, we read that although Jesus was equal with God, He humbled Himsel ...What is the principle of ownership?
The Principle of Ownership keys to understanding irritations and resolving anger and worry The Biblical principle of ownership involves recognizing that all things ultimately belong to God, that He entrusts us with resources and responsibilities to steward for His glory, and that yielding our p ...How can I develop a forgiving spirit?
Have a Forgiving Heart receiving God’s forgiveness and sharing it with others When you’ve been wronged, becoming bitter toward your offender feels like a way to get revenge. However, this response actually harms you more than it harms your offender, because to be bitter is to be in bondage to h ...Why do I need a clear conscience?
The Purpose of a Clear Conscience living in harmony with God and men A healthy conscience discerns between good and evil, and it gets weighed down with guilt over wrongdoing. This sense of guilt should motivate you to take responsibility for your actions and seek forgiveness when you have done ...When asking for forgiveness, are there cautions I should consider?
When Asking for Forgiveness tips to keep in mind Confess only to those who were directly, or actually, offended. Accountability and prayer support between husbands and wives, parents and children, and members of the Body of Christ are important elements of healthy relationships, but additional ...What are some signs of genuine repentance?
Insights Into Repentance lessons from the prodigal son Repentance is not a mechanical duty, but rather a heartfelt response to the conviction of sin. It involves not only grief over sin, but it also includes a decision to change one’s ways. When John the Baptist preached, he challenged his list ...What basic steps should be taken in order to gain a clear conscience?
How to Gain a Clear Conscience take responsibility for your actions When you have offended others, gaining a clear conscience involves taking responsibility for your actions, seeking forgiveness, and making restitution. The following steps provide guidelines for examining your heart and making ...What can stand in the way of clearing my conscience?
Hindrances to Gaining a Clear Conscience common points of rationalization When you’ve said or done something that weighs on your conscience, you might try to explain away the guilt. The following issues could keep you from clearing your conscience: Knowing that the ones you offended were wrong ...When clearing my conscience, what attitudes should I have?
Attitudes for Gaining a Clear Conscience putting the beatitudes to work in your life When you ask a person to forgive you, he will recognize how far you’ve come in developing the following attitudes. Jesus spoke of these attitudes in the Sermon on the Mount (see Matthew 5:3–12), stating that th ...What brings true success in life?
Discover True Success meditate on the Word of God When God speaks of success in Scripture, He relates it to a focus on His Word and the inner activity of meditation. Meditating on Scripture involves bringing God’s Word into our hearts so that it gives direction for every area of our lives. By w ...How should I respond if my unchangeable features prompt ridicule?
Responding to Ridicule what to do if you are mocked for unchangeable features We’ve all felt the sting of ridicule. Observant children do not hesitate to bring embarrassing features into the spotlight. Bullies use words as weapons of intimidation. Spiteful teasing from friends and family member ...Why do I need to accept myself?
Foundations of Accepting God’s Design keys to self-acceptance Your attitude about yourself has a profound influence on your attitudes toward God, your family, your friends, and your future. Understanding the concepts of self-acceptance brings freedom from comparison with others and allows you t ...